Your love capability is something you cultivate within yourself.
Love is by, for and about you, and it never had anything to do with another person.
People have some really crazy ideas about love, friends and relationships. They have the absurd belief that their friends, children, family, lovers and companions can make them happy.
Self-love the perfect soil from which to grow love.
If you are miserable you grow in misery, and if you are joyful you grow in joy.
Because we are always growing, life compounds and magnifies what is already within us.
You must live what you wish to receive.
Sure. You want to be touched, inspired and made to feel alive. But a relationship is like a bridge where you meet other people half-way. That means if you want to be touched, inspired and made to feel alive, you have to be touching, inspiring and bring the fire of your aliveness to the union of your companionship.
To get a solid partner you have to be a solid partner. You can only attract and keep what you are, or lower.
Being alone will show you who you really are, and if you cannot get-on positively as the sole master of your space in that room alone, then you can absolutely forget about it after you add another person.
