You think that if you blame, you will then be free of those problems, but blame cements you to your problems.
Until you stop blaming and become positively self-critical you are not going to move forward.
Blame is very tricky in that it seems like a way out when it is really a form of imprisonment.
If you don't get right with yourself, then nothing in this life will ever make you happy.
Quit waiting for others to give to you; it is not going to happen.
If you live with values for yourself, then you become of great value to all who know you.
Lead with honesty, total integrity, compassion, patience and tolerance — toward yourself!
Lead your life with love and friendship; self-love, and as your own friend.
Find a new and better leader within yourself, for yourself.
Go look in the mirror and have a talk with your real boss